When All My Friends Get Married -Except Me

Me and my friend at our friend's wedding

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I was shocked when one my best friend said she moves to stay with a man she loves. And she dates him only 2 weeks.

"I can’t take this!"  I replied.

I can’t believe you moved there. I can’t believe you trust someone you know only 2 weeks!!!

"When you meet someone right for you, it just easy likes that."  She said.

"Gosh, how can you be so sure about that?" I said in disbelief.

"I’m sure; my sense is telling me…."

"Your sense might be wrong…What if you wake up tomorrow and things are change!! What if… err what if you found out that he is gay!" I protested.

"Stop it. He isn’t gay! I know him ok?"

"Well, may be he isn’t gay but can’t you just take things slow?"

"We have our plan. She paused. We will soon have our baby. I know it doesn’t seem to make any sense, but please understand us!"

Me and My friends 6 years ago

"You will soon have a baby?!??" Oh my...this is beyond ridiculous!

"Yes, we are hoping to have our baby soon."

 Gosh, since when she starts saying “we” this and “we” that???

Ok fine, everyone has their life… I’ve got to understand. It’s time for me to accept this. I can’t help to feel left out. It’s ridiculous.

I was letting these things bothering me along the way home, I can’t fall asleep. I kept thinking what is gonna be like … like...
When All My Friends Get Married-Except Me. Can married and single still be good friends? Can we still hang out?

Well, I don’t know…

I just feel like we can’t be the same anymore. We can’t go back to be the same.  Things have changed.  I might need sometimes to accept that and adjust it bit per bit…

First thing I need to get use to is “We” and “Us”.